BDSM

Welcome to the wild world of BDSM

Ready to yield to a big bad Dom? Welcome to the wild world of BDSM. We’re not talking a bit of light kink here. But something altogether heavier. The first rule of Gay BDSM is to know what you’re getting into. And there are hundreds of different scenarios to choose from depending upon your proclivities. So, let’s crack that whip, tighten those ropes and explore.

Let’s start with some Gay BDSM definitions. BDSM stands for Bondage, Domination, Sadism and Masochism. Muscle Bondage is about restricting movement. With plenty of devilish discipline thrown in for good measure. In every Gay BDSM scene, you have a Dom and a sub. And the sub’s job is to be physically and/or psychologically submissive to his Dom. Reach for ropes, handcuffs, belts, even a bit of velcro. Or opt for blindfolds and some cute little neckties. Hey, even the ghastly coloured scarf granny gave you for Christmas can be put to use. But remember that the Dom is always in control with Muscle Bondage. He sets the guidelines. Although the sub’s consent is non-negotiable.

Gay SM stands for Sadism and Masochism. And this is another dynamic in the rampant realms of Gay BDSM. Be warned, this form of Gay BDSM isn’t for the faint-hearted. Why? Because Gay SM is focused on deriving sexual pleasure from inflicting pain. Or suffering and humiliation. What might this look like? Perhaps some cock and ball torture gets your juices gushing? Or a spot of paddling and flogging? Or some hot wax delicately dripped onto your glistening six-pack? Whatever Gay SM scene your choose, the masochist surrenders his power to the sadist. However, Gay BDSM limits must always be established before getting down to it. Along with a safeword.

Want to be owned? To serve your master at all times? Like, 24/7? There’s a big difference between a spot of Gay BDSM each Sunday afternoon and a Gay Master and Slave relationship. And you don’t enter into the latter with the same haste that you clamber into a sling. You have to completely trust the person you have a Gay Master and Slave relationship with. This means taking the time to get to know them. On every level. And respecting one another’s boundaries. It’s about understanding what you both want. And indeed building a Gay BDSM vision together. Express your desires and feelings. Appreciate that these may change. And then reevaluate the journey you’re taking together. Then let the thrills commence. How far are you willing to go with Gay BDSM? Start finding out by chatting to other kinksters on Gays.com.