Edging

Build-up then blow!

There’s a time for rapidly rubbing one out and another for engaging in an extended, ecstatic battle with the old purple-headed yogurt slinger. Edging invites you to indulge in the latter. Male edging is essentially a stop-and-start method of self-pleasuring. Tug on your cock until you’re about to shoot. Until, in other words, you’re on that metaphorical 'edge'. Then slow down or stop when you reach a plateau. After around 30 seconds or more, start all over again. Repeat this multiple times until you allow yourself to shoot - at which point you may well hit the ceiling.

Taking the time out to bust one’s nut through edging offers multiple benefits. Our bodies and sexuality are there to be enjoyed. And male edging, in intensifying our excitement, forces us to become more fully acquainted with what turns us on and gets us off. Moreover, research shows that it can help guys who suffer from premature ejaculation. And, better yet, a prolonged wankathon may result in a truly stupendous and longer-lasting orgasm. And we all yearn for that.

Male edging for two - or indeed with multiple guys (think edging parties!) offers the perfect opportunity to show off the skills you’ve learned while edging on your own. But, more importantly, it’s a wild way to discover other guys' sexual triggers. Start with foreplay incorporating plentiful licking ‘n’ flicking. And then dive onto your man’s dong, deploying the usual edging techniques. But don’t just limit yourself to using your hands. Open that gob and dispense an extraordinary edging blowjob. Vocal communication is everything with male-on-male edging. And, he needs to give you fair warning when he’s on the brink of squirting. Cease proceedings just before he’s about to shoot his load. Bring him back to that plateau. And then commence all over again. And why not add a further frisson by incorporating some light BDSM alongside that edging blowjob? Tie him to a chair. Shackle his arms. Or blindfold him so he has absolutely no idea what delights lie in store.

The terms edging and gooning are often confused. And it’s understandable. You can’t indulge in one without the other. And both involve the stop-start method of prolonged stimulation. However, you can’t become a gooner until you’ve perfected the art of edging. With edging, you may nurture that nob for up to an hour. But, gooning frequently means shutting yourself away for days. Crucially, the emphasis in gooning isn’t on reaching orgasm but on switching over to a unique trance-like state. And, this often happens when you least expect it. Think of it as male edging’s spiritual sibling.