Foreplay

Let the teasing commence

Perhaps it’s something to do with the crazy busy times we live in. But far too many guys neglect Gay Foreplay. Or at least don’t give it the attention it deserves. Oh, how quick we are to dive deep in and bang away. But time spent moistening those hungry erogenous zones is an investment in a hotter sex life. Moreover, it’s a deliciously playful way to explore one another’s bodies and build intimacy.

Sex without Gay Foreplay is rather like cooking without sufficient electricity. You need to warm that oven up before you plunge in the pork. And there should be no time limits. It varies depending on the couple. Chemistry leads the way. So leave your inhibitions at the boudoir door. Strip away the layers. Reveal yourself. Become vulnerable. Take time to note and respond to your partner’s reactions. Build slowly until he’s all quivering desire and barely contained anticipation. Savour the climb. And then Hold back. And then astonish him by pulling out yet another trick. And another. His looks of unadulterated pleasure and surprise will guide you. Imagination is everything. Unleash its full, filthy force.

Great Gay Foreplay means using every part of your body and mind. And this starts with your voice. Commence proceedings with some dirty talk. Deploy the full power of those wandering hands. Massage. Kiss. Your mission is to get his man meat solid. Discover his most sensitive spots. Are his nips wired to those low hangers? A river of kisses along his body will provide the answer. But always delay chomping on his meat until it’s truly pulsating. Then give it the basting of its life. Crucially, ensure you don’t neglect the other end. But a few lacklustre licks won’t suffice. Get right in there with your tongue. Work each angle. Slowly. Tantalisingly. Nibble. Kiss. Tweak. And then devour his hole.

Carefully chosen porn can immediately turn up the temperature. Play it in the background to set the scene. Or get verbal as you enact what you see on the screen. It all depends on what mood you’re both in. But think of Gay Foreplay as creating your own film. You’re the stars and directors. The boundaries are yours. And like everything else, they’re crying out to be stretched. Dildos and butt plugs will invigorate your anal administrations. And again, it’s all about the slow build to get those juices bubbling. Check out our sex toy tips here. Ready to rediscover the joys of Gay Foreplay? So are thousands of other guys. Give them a gentle prod on Gays.com.