Bondage

Restrain and restrict!

"When it cums to the multiple, magnificent pillars of BDSM, bondage remains the most mainstream. Whether you use heavy restraints, handcuffs or even the scarf granny gave you at Christmas, this sexual preference is about restricting movement. But always within the consensual realms of a safe power dynamic. "

A common misconception is that Bondage is always heavy. But many guys enjoy a spot of it in vanilla sex. It’s about mixing things up. And probing those long-harboured sexual fantasies. You may start with some pretty pink and fluffy handcuffs. But then choose to traverse other, darker avenues. Punishment is central to Torture Bondage. And scenarios could involve you being left tied up for long periods. Stamina is everything here. Or perhaps you fancy trying some Metal Bondage. With this, the rattle of those chains alone is an aphrodisiac. And then there’s the option of being suspended from all manner of complicated linkages. More extreme types of Bondage are often practiced within a dungeon. This heightens the erotic atmosphere. And of course when you’re buried deep below the ground, no one can hear you scream!

Another common myth is that you have to practice it with another guy. But like all sex, it can be enjoyed alone. Gay Self Bondage centres on using restraints to restrict your own movement. You do all of the work. You’re in total control. And consequently, the pleasure and the pain belong solely to you. Gag or blindfold yourself. Or even reach for leg irons. Multiple mechanisms are available. But the emphasis is invariably on experimentation. And ingenuity. However, as you’re acting alone, Gay Self Bondage is more dangerous than other forms of Bondage. If something goes wrong, there’s no one to rescue you. And for this reason, you need to learn the ropes, so to speak, very carefully. Always ensure that whatever restraint you use has some form of release mechanism. Remember that you’re not Harry Houdini.

Bondage offers unrivalled opportunities for sexual pleasure. The floaty, almost high states are delicious and one of a kind. But there are also deeper and more widespread benefits. Because it’s built on trust and vulnerability, it can help you forge stronger connections. Within yourself and with your lover. Additionally, exploring different power dynamics as a sub or dom can help you heal your relationship. The trick is taking what you discover in the bedroom into other parts of your life. Bondage can be transformative. On multiple levels. Start exploring it today on Gays.com.