Who hasn’t, at some point, had fantasies about being controlled or controlling someone else? The queer scene is full of opportunities for those into gay bondage and BDSM – but how do you start

Most of us in the queer community label ourselves as either top, bottom or vers. But what if you don't identify with any of these positions? What if you don't enjoy anal sex at all? Welcome to the

If you have a taste for cum, you may already know what felching is. Alex Hopkins explores the definition of this kinky fetish and explores ways for you to practise it as safely as

Wondering how to use a cock ring properly? Alex Hopkins shows you how to maximize your meat without damaging your dong. Plus, learn how to create your own homemade cock ring. 
 
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Queer culture often equates youth with beauty. However, things are changing; mature men are becoming increasingly desired. Welcome the rise of the silver daddy! Alex Hopkins chats to some silver

Is big always better? For some, when it comes to dick size they won't consider anything less than XXL! Alex Hopkins chatted to three size queens about why they will only play with well endowed guys.

If you believe everything you see in porn, sex is always hot and perfectly synchronized. However, as we all know, the reality is usually different. We take a tongue-in-cheek look at seven awkward sex

Bored of just bashing one out? Wanking gets repetitive, so why not shake-up your solo jerking off sessions? As May is Masturbation Month, Alex Hopkins suggests 12 male masturbation techniques and

For us men, connecting online and through free gay dating apps has never been easier. But which are the best applications out there for meeting other guys? From Gaudi to Grindr, from Recon to Romeo,

Sex with a gay daddy: A big age difference of ten or twenty years is not uncommon in the gay world. More and more often, I find myself looking up at men who, by age, could easily be my father. What

Being in a long-distance gay relationship comes with unique challenges. Alex Hopkins shares seven ways you and your man can keep the flame alive while you're physically apart. 

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Gay men traditionally have more non-monogamous relationships than their hetero counterparts, but would you be up for a gay throuple? Alex Hopkins chats to one gay trio in the UK about how they

Every relationship needs a regular check-up. What can be improved? Where do you go from here? Or maybe there's too much mileage on the clock? Here are six pieces of relationship advice so you can

The queer community stereotype power bottoms as being totally subs in the sack. In reality, PBs usually take charge during sex; playing a bossy and dominant role to get the dick they want. Indeed,

Have you ever looked at long-term gay couples and wondered just how they manage to keep things going? Alex Hopkins spoke to gay men to discover the secrets to their longevity. The result? Six gay

Dating shouldn't be a chore, it should be fun. So, from setting boundaries from staying sex-free on the first date (yes, really), follow our 12 gay dating tips and you’ll be lining up Mr Right in no

What is it that attracts us gay guys to older or younger men? Is it the youthful vitality of younger guys or the maturity, and wisdom of someone older? Let's explore gay age gap

As it's International Fetish Day on 20 January, what better time to take a look at some of the most popular gay kinks and fetishes on the scene. Kink-meister Alex Hopkins lists his Top 10 – from

Are you planning on being a bottom for the first time but worried about being getting fucked? From douching to diet, these 11 butt-bangin' tips from Alex Hopkins will show you how to prepare for anal

Have a fantasy about getting wet 'n' wild? Gay watersports are more popular than you may think. So, if you want to explore a urine fetish, Alex Hopkins offers up his top tips on how to get started

If you didn't already know which sexual role your prefer, our Gay Personality Test will reveal how much of a top or bottom you are... plus a whole lot more! Take our quiz, have some fun, and share

It's only normal that gay love making will get lacklustre after a while, but shaking things up only takes some experimentation! Alex Hopkins explores seven of the best gay sexual positions to

Call us anal, but we're fussy when it comes to giving – and receiving – a decent gay rimming. Eating ass is intimate, erotic, and a great warm-up for fucking. So, from incorporating stubble to

There are few things gay men relish more than the ancient and sacred art of fellatio. But how do you become a master at giving good head? Alex Hopkins shares his 11 top tips on how to suck a dick

We're pleased to report that the age-old tradition of al fresco queer cruising is alive and well in London – it’s just knowing where to look. Luckily, we know exactly where to look. Discover the