Fuck Like a Gay Porn Star | Tips for the Gay Top and Bottom

Fucking is an art form, one which gay porn stars at least appear to have off pat. But how can you fully satisfy your partner? Here are our top tips to becoming a tumultuous top or bountiful bottom. 
 

Let's start with... FIVE TIPS FOR A GAY TOP 
 

1: Tops, loosen him up!

The first thing to understand about gay porn is that it's mostly smoke and mirrors. It looks seamless – but it's often not, which means that you should adjust your expectations accordingly. Even the most legendary porn stars have to prep. Indeed, they're experts at it. 

For a gay top, it starts with loosening up your gay bottom, but treat him as a human being rather than a nameless orifice. Take time to ensure he's comfortable and experiment with foreplay.
 

2: Angles are everything

Before a gay top casually slams in the lamb, he needs to consider the angles from which he will embark upon this full-throttle assault. Lube your gay bottom up with care. Porn doesn't show you this process, so the assumption is that every guy is self-lubricating - nonsense. 

Begin by lying him on his back, entering him slowly and respond to his body with sensitivity. Be gentle and plant some delicate kisses here and there. Tweak his nipples and play with his hole. But carefully. Those fingers can feel like prongs if you don't use them thoughtfully.
 

3: Prostate party

The prostate is everything for a gay bottom as it's the centre of male pleasure. A gay top must strum it like you're playing a delicate Spanish guitar. Take the time to find his prostate. Vibrate, pulse, then escalate with your dick. Patience, in this case, is most definitely a virtue. And the rewards will be intense – for you both.
 

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4: Delay the thrusting

Ok, so you've found your gay bottom's pleasure point. Now hold your fire. Tease him and watch him squirm and relish the pleasure bubbling in his eyes.

Build momentum carefully and slowly. Remember, the line between pleasure and pain is slender. If he feels like he is being stabbed, it's because he is being stabbed!  If you're doing him doggy style, then go in from above. Manoeuvre and adjust. Don't just ram your weapon in horizontally.
 

5: Precision strikes

You'll know when your gay bottom wants you to do him harder and faster. And he doesn't need to provide the frankly absurd vocal theatrics you get in porn. Read his eyes. Look at how his body has loosened up and surrendered to the blissful waves of pleasure. Oh, you're so good!

But as you begin to thrust like the enormous piston we all know you are, stay mindful. Remember, the goal is to strike the back of his quivering appendage from inside his arse – with absolute precision - time and time again. 
 

and now... FIVE TIPS FOR A GAY BOTTOM
 

6: Find your prostate

How can you possibly expect a gay top to find your prostate if you haven't had a good rummage around yourself? But where's it located? This magically locked box is three and a half to four inches inside your arse, neatly sandwiched between your two sphincters. You can have plenty of fun finding it. A good poke with your finger while squatting is the way to go: lube and more lube.
 

7: Bottoms take charge

Remember, the gay bottom is in charge. You can still be in charge and be submissive; the two are not mutually exclusive. You control exactly how much he puts in, at what speed, and when. Assert yourself. Vary the positions – until you're 100% comfortable.
 

8: Feast on that hole 

Think of your face as his throne. And he is damn well going to sit on it and guzzle up the veritable feast on offer - tongue blisters and all. He remains there until you're good and ready.
 

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9: Manage that 'S curve'

Big surprise: like many a homophobe, your rectum is most certainly not straight. Indeed, it's thoroughly wonky. Think about the shape of an S. And then think what it's going to feel like if he unthinkingly lobs his bayonet in there and bashes away. He's going to hit your rectal wall with all the force of the charge of the light brigade. Pain doesn't cover it, girl.

However, by straightening that S curve, this grim situation can be avoided. How? Again, choose the right position. Getting those legs close to your chest is the way to go.
 

10: You don't have to be a gay bottom

Does it still hurt? Tried everything, and it's still not working? Are you still not bottoming like Armond Rizzo? Fear not. To shatter another myth of porn: not everybody is meant to be a gay bottom. Not everybody is versatile. And far better to focus on being the best gay top you can than being lousy both ways. 
 

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