Nipple play is all about equality – it works for men and women. Result. But, gay males particularly love it! Why? Discover why nipples are such erotic hot spots and learn seven top tips on how to tweak and tantalise those nips.
You'll know from experience that some guys' titties are hard-wired to their cocks. Just one nipple tweak gets that mighty baton bulging and chomping at the bit. At the same time, for some men a spot of male nipple play does nothing for them at all. Why?
Nipples are key erogenous zones. They're jam-packed with nerve endings screaming to be stimulated. Smooth fibres surround the nipples themselves, and it's these that cause them to become erect. Let them flood with blood, and you have the ultimate recipe for extreme sensitivity.
Male nipple play: 7 top tips
And now for the truly great news. Male and female nipples have the same number of those magic nerve endings. But as with so many things sexual, the amount of pleasure is intricately linked to size. Because men's nipples are smaller than women's, the sensations that they experience can be doubly intense.
That sorted, let's look at the best ways to get hot ‘n' horny through gay nipple play. Try out these seven top tips with a partner and see how much it gets them off.
Hot gay nipple play tip 1: moisten them up!
As mentioned above, nipple sensitivity varies. It's different in everyone. A tiny tweak of your tits might make your dick jump to attention but it might not be the same for your sex partner. So, before you indulge in some gay nipple play, it's worth a conversation. Is it his thing? Rather than simply asking, you could say how nipple play works for you first then ask him what it does for him.
Alternatively, you could jump right in there and start experimenting during foreplay. Just be sure to monitor how he reacts to see if it's floating his boat. If nipple play is new for him, start slowly and subtly. Test his limits for gay nipple play by giving them a gentle bite and seeing how he reacts. Then, as with everything else carnal, relish the build-up. Heap layer upon layer of pleasure until he's squirting like a geyser.
“A tiny tweak of your tits might make your dick jump to attention but it might not be the same for your sex partner. So, before you indulge in some gay nipple play, it's worth a conversation.”
Employ your lips and tongue to the max as moisture is everything; give a few gentle licks to commence proceedings and then a nice stiff dart of a tongue rampantly, working all those angles. Conclude your session with a ferocious tongue lashing!
How to lick gay nipple play. Tubedogg via Flickr Creative Commons (CC BY-SA 2.0)
Hot male nipple play tip 2: stroke to stimulate
Combine your fabled oral dexterity with your miracle hands. Start by stroking with your fingertips, then the full length of your fingers. Why not exert some additional pressure with those nails? Another top tip for hot gay nipple play: loosen things up further with some gels, balms and other lubricants. Menthol is particularly effective – or perhaps a twist of tangy strawberry to get those juices flowing.
Hot gay nipple play tip 3: flick freely
You'll know by now if male nipple play is doing it for him. And this means it's time to up the ante. Get in there harder and faster. Flick away with those fingers – and tongue. Maybe using your toes to play with his nips will give him an extra turn-on? If he has a foot fetish then it's bound to add another dimension of pleasure. Remember that teasing and the art of the unexpected is everything when it comes to gay nipple play. Constantly vary the speed, pressure and intensity.
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Hot male nipple play tip 4: give it a pinch
Ensnare that pulsating nipple ending between those fingers and pull. Then pinch, and do both at once and repeat! The nipples are wonderfully elastic, so don't fear lasting damage – they don't get any less sensitive with frequent use. Frequent gay nipple play may mean the end bit of his nips become bigger over time – if you spot a guy with fat nip endings you can be pretty certain he is into having his tits played and pulled with.
Communicating with your partner during gay nipple play is vital. But remember the line between pleasure and pain is fine. Your mission is to exploit that to its full potential.
Tweak and turn those nips! Arrideo Photography via Flickr Creative Commons (CC BY-ND 2.0)
Hot gay nipple play tip 5: yank, wank, blow
Male nipple play can – and indeed should be – combined with every other weapon in your sexual arse-enal. Just because your hands are full, does not mean your mouth should be empty! Slink to your knees and deep throat that fat cock as you play with his – or your own – nips. Gay nipple play means multi-tasking. Limber up and let your filthy imagination run riot.
Hot male nipple play tip 6: chomp away
His squeals of ecstasy will indicate when and how you should go to the next level of male nipple play. So, it's time to get playful with those incisors. Again, start carefully and gently. A little nibbling to begin with. Don't rush in. When he's squealing like a banshee, you know you can jump in deeper! Some guys love a little pain when they're fucking, but as the nips are super sensitive and delicate, bite with caution – ending up in A&E with a torn nipple is a total boner breaker.
Hot gay nipple play tip 7: clamp – and let go
Don't be put off by the idea of nipple clamps. You may consider these are the reserve of BDSM – but you're wrong. Fact: a nipple clamp doesn’t have to resemble a medieval torture device, they can even be pink and cute.
“Some guys love a little pain when they're fucking but as the nips are super sensitive and delicate, bite with caution – ending up in A&E with a torn nipple is a total boner breaker.”
Take time to choose the right clamp for you. Ensure it's the right size for your titties – and that it's adjustable. The same applies to nipple weights. Not sure this is for you? Want to save your cash? Reach for those multi-coloured clothes pegs instead and give them a whirl. You can try all the colours of the rainbow!
Takeaway: gay nipple play
Has all this nip natter got you hot 'n' horny? Our seven tip tips should have you fully acquainted with the joys of male nipple play, so try it out on a partner and let us know how it goes. Next stop: nipple piercings, which are guaranteed to send your pleasure into the stratosphere! •
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