Gays.com is free and always will be, but upgrading your membership gives you more.

Upgrade and unlock extra features and enjoy Gays.com to the fullest. Whatever you’re looking for; whether it's dates, friends, sex or love - upgrading your membership gives you more opportunities and flexibility to find it.

What you get

View your recent visitors

5

100

300

Wanna see who's been checking you out? Free members see the last five profile visitors within the past 24 hours. Premium and VIP members can see the last 100 or 300 visitors to their profile in the last 30 days.

Send 'icebreaker' messages

5 per day

25 per day

50 per day

Contact newcomers with icebreaker messages.

Control who contacts you

Yes

Yes

Yes

Send and receive messages and control who can contact you by filtering your messages by age, gender, area and more

See who's in your area

Yes

Yes

Yes

With Distance Search, quickly find people nearby. You can search with a radius from 5km to worldwide.

Live chat around the clock

Yes

Yes

Yes

Chat live in numerous rooms or start up a private chat with up to 5 people. Premium and VIP's have exclusive access to Video Chat.

Access the Gay Forum

Yes

Yes

Yes

Share your horny stories, fantasies, biggest turn-ons or sexual worries in our Gay Forum

Create Places and Events

Yes

Yes

Yes

Create and share your own events like private sex parties or add indoor and outdoor places like: cruising areas, saunas and more...

Upload photos

Yes

Yes

Yes

All members have an unlimited number of photos to upload.

Upload videos

5

15

Unlimited

Upload videos and show yourself off!

Use the Advanced Search tools

Yes

Yes

Yes

Distance Search allows you to find people closest to you. Quick Search allows you to select criteria such as: age and gender to find matches. Criteria Search allows you to search according to appearance and preferences.

Create a private photo gallery

No

Yes

Yes

If you've got some hot pics that you don't want just anyone to see, a private gallery will do the trick.

Flirt in Speed Dating

50

Unlimited

Unlimited

Free members can send a limited number of Speed Dating flirts per day (unlimited for Premium & VIP)

Get a @gays.com email address

Yes

Yes

Yes

Create a unique username for your intimate email address. Pass an authenticity check and you'll have a free webmail similar to Outlook.

Send free mobile texts

Yes

Yes

Yes

Gays.com members can send between 5 and 15 free texts per day. That way, you don't have to give out your private number when first meeting someone.

Add Friends

50

100

500

Publicly link your profile with people you've been chatting to and immediately see if they're online.

Save profiles and notes

5

50

100

When you find someone who interests you, you can add them to your Favorites list and even add notes. When they come online, you can quickly make contact.

Show off in our photo comps.

Yes

Yes

Yes

Make yourself a star, take part and rate others in our hot and sexy photo competitions.

Get an authenticity check

Yes

Yes

Yes

Anyone who joins Gays.com can take a free and simple fake check, so you can browse with confidence and meet others as authentic as you.

Get email support

Yes

Yes

Yes

Our support team is always on hand for questions and support.

Get phone support

Yes

Yes

Yes

Get phone support Monday to Friday. VIP's only pay local rates to contact us.

Go Premium or VIP member today and enjoy all of these EXTRAS:

Write, read and filter messages

Yes

Yes

Yes

On Gays.com you can send and receive unlimited messages. You can use message filters to decide who can write to you. You can filter by age, gender, area and more.

Start a new conversation

5 days

25 days

50 days

On Gays.com, you can send between 5 and 50 new contact messages each day.

Flirt with someone

3 days

Yes

Yes

As a Premium or VIP member you can send unlimited Flirts and see who is Flirting with you.

Use Gays.com Email

Yes

Yes

Yes

Create a unique username for your intimate email address. As a member who has passed an authenticity check, you will have a free webmail similar to Outlook.

See my visitors

5 days

100 days

300 days

Wanna see who's been checking you out? Premium and VIP members can see the last 100 or 300 visitors to their profile in the last 30 days.

See message statuses

No

Yes

Yes

Premium and VIP members can see if their message has been read by the recipient, to get a better idea of whether they are interested in you.

Send free texts

5 days

10 days

15 days

Gays.com members can send between 5 and 15 free texts per day. That way, you don't have to give out your private number when first meeting someone.

Live Chat Around the Clock

Yes

Yes

Yes

Within the Chat, there are rooms for certain regions and preferences where you can chat live with people you relate to. You can also open a private Chat to flirt with up to 5 people at a time. Premium and VIP members can also use Video Chat.

Know the response rate of an attractive member

Np

Yes

Yes

Premium and VIP members see a stats box on people's profiles that give an idea of the member's responsiveness, so you can see how active they are on Gays.com.

Get profile previews

No

Yes

Yes

As a Premium or VIP member, you can see snippets of profiles for people in your inbox or on the Who's Online list. This way, you'll have information at your fingertips to decide who interests you.

Attach photos to my messages

No

Yes

Yes

Premium and VIP members can send photos in messages. You can choose which photos, that meet our photo rules, you want to attach.

Write to Newcomers and Popular Members

No

Yes

Yes

Premium and VIP members get dibs on contacting Newcomers and Popular Members on Gays.com. This increases your chances of meeting a match!

Write on a members' wall

No

20 days

30 days

Premium and VIP members have their own wall where members can leave posts. You can also post up to 20 or 30 entries on the wall of other members.

Open my own chat room

No

Yes

Yes

Premium and VIP members can open a private chat room and name it whatever they like. They can also decide on whether only other Premium and VIP members can have access, and whether a webcam is required.

Get highlighted in inboxes

No

No

Yes

For 150 points, both Free and Premium members can bump their message to the top of a receiver's inbox and stand out from the crowd. VIP members can send a top message for free every week.

Find and be found

See who's in your area

Yes

Yes

Yes

With Distance Search you will quickly find people nearby to you. You can search with a radius from 5 to 500 km.

Quick Search by username, gender, age and zip code

Yes

Yes

Yes

With Quick Search you can enter a username or see random members who meet your requirements.

Criteria Search by appearance, preferences, relationship status and more

Yes

Yes

Yes

With Detailed Search, you can enter criteria that range from hair color, to relationship status. See matches for you!

Save profiles and notes

5

50

100

When you find someone who interests you, you can add them to your Favorites list and even add notes. When they come online, you can quickly make contact with them.

Search for Online Members

No

Yes

Yes

Premium and VIP members can search just among members who are online, and can sort the Who's Online list by age, gender, area and distance.

Search photos and videos

No

Yes

Yes

As a Premium or VIP member, you can search photos and videos to meet your search criteria, such as age, body type, area and more.

Search Newcomers

No

Yes

Yes

Premium and VIP members can search for and contact Newcomers on Gays.com. This increases your chances of getting lucky!

See visitors to the chat room

No

Yes

Yes

As a Premium or VIP member, you can see who is in a chat room filtered by gender before entering. That way, you know if the room interests you or not.

Save search settings

No

3

6

Premium and VIP Members can save 3-6 search settings and so, with just one click, see people that interest you.

Get promoted in search results and on the Homepage

No

Yes

Yes

As a Premium or VIP member, your profile will be featured on the Homepage and appear high in the search results of other members. This will up your chances of getting lucky!

Jump to top of the list of online members

No

No

Yes

The Who's Online list shows 200 randomly-selected members who are online. All memberss see this on the left side of the screen. As a VIP member, you'll appear at the top of the list, thus increasing your traffic and chances of getting lucky!

Automatically get more traffic

No

No

Yes

VIP members are often featured on the home page, in search results, and under "similar members". By upgrading you can get more traffic and increases your chances of getting lucky!

Get highlighted in search results

No

No

Yes

For 200 points you can shoot your profile to the top of the search results and immediately stand out from the masses. If you're a VIP member, you can jump to a top ranking once every week for free.

Blur tracks for this visit

No

Yes

Yes

Premium and VIP members can blur their tracks, which is a great feature if you want to see but not be seen! Or want to hide your interest in someone.

More erotic material!

Upload photos

No

Yes

Yes

Having good photos up allows people to create a full image of you in their minds, and increases the chances they will Flirt with you. Members have an unlimited number of photos to upload of themselves, so be generous and expressive!

Start a private photo gallery

Nah

Yes

Yes

If you've got some especially hot videos that you don't want just anyone to see, you can create a secret video gallery. You can adjust who in your Favorites or Friends lists can see you videos.

Upload videos

5

15

Unlimited

You can discuss, ask the community for advice, read reviews and stories, and much more in the Forum

Create a private video gallery

Nah

Yes

Yes

If you've got some especially hot videos that you don't want just anyone to see, you can create a secret video gallery. You can adjust who in your Favorites or Friends lists can see you videos.

See 18+ photos and videos

Nah

Yes

Yes

As a Premium or VIP member with an 18 + verification, you can see all the hot photos and videos.

See webcam videos in Video Chat

Nah

Yes

Yes

Premium and VIP members can open Video Chat with up to 5 Webcams live at the same time.

Surf in stealth mode

Nah

Yes

Yes

Premium and VIP members have the ability to log in to Gays.com, but still appear offline to other members.

Find out more about other members

Nein

Yes

Yes

Premium and VIP members can find out how far another member is from them, what their response rate is, the quality of their messages, their last posts and who their friends are. This helps give a better idea of the person behind the profile.

The full community experience

Appear in the Top 100 Members list

Yes

Yes

Yes

When you appear in the Top 100 List, you'll get more traffic. You'll also see lists of the Best 100 Photos, Videos, Profiles, News Reviews and more.

Take part in community surveys

Yes

Yes

Yes

On Gays.com you can vote in a variety of community surveys about a wide range of topics.

Set up Events and Locations

Yes

Yes

Yes

Gays.com isn't just about events like private parties, member meetings and exhibitions, but also allows you to create events at indoor and outdoor venues, trendy bars, clubs, nudist beaches, parks and more. Share your events with the community!

Join the forum

Yes

Yes

Yes

You can discuss, ask the community for advice, read reviews and stories, and much more in the Forum

Add Friends

50

100

500

Publicly link your profile with people you've been chatting to and immediately see if they're online.

Get an authenticity check

Yes

Yes

Yes

Anyone who joins Gays.com can take a free and simple fake check, so you can browse with confidence and meet others as authentic as you.

Get email support

Yes

Yes

Yes

Our support team is always on hand for questions and support.

Get telephone support

$0.99/min

$0.99/min

Available where you are

Get phone support Monday to Friday. VIP's only pay local rates to contact us.

Show off in our photo comps!

No

Yes

Yes

Make yourself a star, take part and rate others in our sexy photo competitions.

Get access the Premium and VIP area in the Gay Forum

No

Yes

Yes

Premium or VIP's get exclusive access to the private forums on topics of interest.

Ad-free browsing possible

No

Yes

Yes

Get rid of those pesky ads when you upgrade to a Premium or VIP.