Partner Swapping: Need a change?
Need some extra sauce in the bedroom? Tried every sexual position known to man and it’s still not enough? Perhaps it’s time to delve deeply into the pleasures of Partner Swapping. Also known as swinging, this is where you exchange sexual partners on a casual basis. But before you swing loose and low or make yourself available to all and sundry at some random party in the outer reaches of suburbia, there are some vital things to factor in.
What might ultra-pleasurable Partner Swapping look like?
The Partner Swapping or Swinging community is as rampant and inclusive as you make it. And the onus is on you and your better half to ensure your sticky adventures are safe, consensual and above all kinktastic.
Partner Swapping can take any shape you choose. However, it’s essential to ensure that you are both comfortable. Time for tough questions.
Are you both secure in your relationship?
Do you have a strong foundation of trust and respect?
This will help determine how you trade lovers. Perhaps you’ll begin by Partner Swapping with guys you know. However, others may find it easier and indeed steamier with strangers? If this is the case, then the jizzathon that’s a Swinging party may be your bag. Alternatively, check out willing victims online.
How do I identify the right couples for Partner Swapping?
Ensuring that the couple you decide to hook up with is on your wavelength is important. And we’re not talking just sexually. Sure, you need to fancy them. But there are deeper considerations too.
Naturally, getting a damn good seeing to is first and foremost in your mind. But don’t neglect your more cerebral needs. Aim for an emotionally and psychologically fulfilling Partner Swapping experience.
Consider what’s important to you when meeting new people. Is it age? Fitness? Interests? Intelligence? Shared values? Good old-fashioned manners?
Firming up on these matters saves much awkwardness. Why? Because after you’ve mopped up the juices you often have to converse with the person who’s rummaged around your giblets.
What's the difference between Partner Swapping and Gay Polyamory?
You can check out our full guide to Gay Polyamory here [insert link]. But simply put, Gay Polyamory is when you have intimate relationships with more than one partner simultaneously. Crucially, these relationships can be on multiple levels. Emotional and intellectual as well as sexual. Moreover, they are frequently long-term arrangements.
However, with Partner Swapping the emphasis is on the sexual. These exploits are more casual than Gay Polyamory. Additionally, one maintains emotional monogamy with Partner Swapping.
But Partner Swapping and Gay Polyamory can still overlap. And one can lead to another. Because both are lifestyles, offering welcoming, supportive communities that you can begin to explore now on Gays.com.
Other terms for Partner Swapping
Keywords:
Polyamorous, Group Sex,