Spanking

Mainstream BDSM

Do you long to put that naughty guy over your knee and teach him a lesson he’ll never forget? Or perhaps you yearn to be on the receiving end of such a punishment? Gay spanking is one of the commonest of kinks. And it’s also one of the easiest to enjoy. It’s low maintenance. And you require little in terms of kit to get going. However, like all fetishes, there are some important points to consider for beginners. Let’s probe the bottom line.

What is it about Gay spanking that appeals to you? And what do you want to get out of it? Every BDSM scene requires you to be honest about your expectations. Why? Because once you’ve established them you can craft the perfect scene. Clear communication is essential. As is trusting your partner. And establishing a safe word to immediately stop proceedings if you’re uncomfortable. Many guys use a traffic light system in Gay spanking. For example, green means go. And red means stop. The choice is yours. However, all boundaries must be established. And consent is non-negotiable.

You’ve had an open and honest discussion with your partner. Now it’s time for the male on male spanking frolics to commence. The wonderful thing about male on male spanking is that you don’t have to invest in an expensive kit to get going. Indeed, you can start with what’s directly in front of you. Your bare hand. You'll find other suitable implements for male on male around your house. That belt lying on the bedroom floor. That hairbrush on your dressing room table. But use the back of it rather than the bristly end. Those carpet slippers poking out from beneath the bed. But if you do choose to invest in spanking tools, there are plenty to choose from. Canes, clubs and crops will all deliver a barnstorming beating. And then of course you have the classic bullwhip and flogger.

Stupendous spanking isn’t so much about the tool but the technique. Much like all sex. Safety is paramount. Yes, you want to inflict pain. But also pleasure. And consequently, you should be mindful about which areas of the body you’re giving a good seeing to. Move to the meaty areas. Buttocks and upper thighs. Always avoid the tailbone area. Hammering anything above the upper buttocks could damage the kidneys. Vary your spanks. The force, speed and intensity. And the areas you target. Let your mood dictate your delivery in Gay spanking. Be tender. Or ferocious. But always be careful. And keep checking in with your partner to ensure he’s ok. Above all, remember that everyone has a different pain threshold. And everyone enjoys different types of spanking. Seeking a superior spankee for some serious whip crack away? Grab him on Gays.com.