Are there serious guys who are searching for a serious relationship??? - Looking for LOVE!!!

[Deleted Member]

I know that I have said this before but I think I need to say this again.Guys love is out there and I know that if you take your timeand just let life happen that perso will walk right by you..

I found my love 23 yrs. ago and yes he is younger then me(thats for a different group) But anyway I was out one night and he just walk by after watching him all night when he walk by me to go I said his name and we started talking. We end up talking all night in a car in front of a Navy Dock Yard. He left with a kiss and saying he had fun just talking all night.He never did that before its was always sex with other guys and out the door.

2days later was Thanksgiving and he came to dinner..We had such a good day and no we did not have sex. So sex is what I have to say should wait. Get to know the person and keep your eyes open he might be right in front of you in a store or a bus you just never know..

Lots of Love not luck because luck is not what you want you all want a friend frist and then Love..I will pray for each of you that you find that person like I did and what a open relationship we have..

Just remember sex is fun but love is for ever. So if you want a LTR I say stop looking and just sit back and watch others and you just might see the one you will love..

[Ar****]

Im absolutely agree with that. The most important thing in a relationship is love. Everyithinge else will follow. Love means to me tho care for each other, listen to what your partner/friend says, be patient, etc.

Sex is not in the first place it needs time.

Hugs Armin

[Vinesh_Lobin]

Totally agree too, sex is not in the first place it needs time. LOVE is more important for a LTR...

[Darren_Stewart]

I totally agree too,sex is important but it NOT the only thing we gay men are seeking. I want that closeness,that emotional connection,I want a man to care about me just I want to care about him.Frankly it seems guys out there do not want to take the time to develop a friendship first. They want to jump right in to being boyfriends and we all know it does not work that way. You have to develop the friendship connection first.

[Vinesh_Lobin]

This is so deep Darren and so true as well; but, unfortunately, the question is to find the other person who is willing to develop that friendship first. Note that nowadays, most of the guys fall in the category of those who only think using their head below their belt, so!!!

[Ku****]

Ya, thats totally true, when you see some one and its love at first site then its not the sex that we look for instead we wish "Wish I had a partner like him or Wish I can be with him till the end of my life"

[Deleted Member]

Hang in there everyone will find his mate...

[Deleted Member]

Heya Everyone,

I'm Xander from London, I'm 20, I'm a Specialist Make-up Artist so many hints & tips from me evolving make-up lol...:P X

I am looking for the one but I'm not sure that will ever happen...:/ But I have joined this group to see if I get lucky & fall for Mr.Right... X

I'm looking for a guy who would share the same interests which I have, Someone who is funny, lovely, caring, charming, romantic, handsome, geeky, toned, smart, high spirited, someone who is mixed raced or asian, who is a bit quirky, understanding, has a brilliant smile & maybe some more...I ask this only because I always have a dream every night depicting that guy...But it could be false...Who knows...?! X

We will see...XxX