help!!!! - Love and Romance

[Sa****]

Im in a relationship that I feel I am always doing something wrong I never feel Im good enough. I need some advice what should I do. Im living in a state of confusion at the moment I love my girlfriend very much but am not sure whether this "relationship" we are in is healthy....????

[Deleted Member]

follow your heart. it will adventually lead you in the right direction. it may get broken but whether things are to work out or not that will be determined on how much love is in the relationship. talk to her tell her how you feel and see what happens.

[Libby_Horning]

I agree just use your head and follow your heart by doing that you'll rarely go wrong.

[Miranda_Jean_Renee_Hall]

confrontation is the way to go let her know how you feel. maybe she doesn't realize what you're feeling. it's the only way to make it better. I left my ex for reasons like this but we never talked about now all thats left between us is secrets and lies.. no one wants that

[As****]

I would say talk to her about what you are feeling. If she does not know how is she suppose to fix things. communication is the way to go

[Samantha_Downey]

thanku

[Ka****]

agreed, communicate.

[Br****]

Tell her what's going on in your head. You don't want all of those feelings piling up.

[Allison_Alvarez]

dont u just hate those kind of relationships? ive been there done that. no one has the right to make u feel as if its all u do dats wrong. i say talk to her. if it doesnt work, cut ur losses and move on. i know that sounds blunt and unsensitive but its the best move. y wold u like to spend the rest of ur time on something that cant be fixed?

[Deleted Member]

I agree wholeheartedly but most with with allison. Have u ever thought that she might be insecure about herself or something else else might be bothering her & she's taking it out on u, it might not even be u at all. But if u dontb talk 2 heryoull neva know. I used 2 think It was me, but it was them..... cheating..... lying.....physically & mental ***. Be careful but just talk if u don't get what u need, start walking.....OUT

[Allison_Alvarez]

yea it might not be u. have u tried talkin to her? does she know how u feel? girl, we need some info so acess the situation!!!! lol

[Sammie_Parson]

I sure hope by now you've already talk to your girl, cause that is clearly not healthy at all. Whateva the situation may be you gotta talk it out or it will come out in stupid little arguments over small stuff leading up to a volcanic eruption of emotional overflow destroying everything in the masses of anger, confusion, guilt and chaos! Your in the red zone with this relationship. Danger, Danger!

[Allison_Alvarez]

i love the way Romeos mind took me somewhere else all together! i could have sworn i was reading the new volcano movie lol