CHAT & 'COMING OUT' ADVICE?

[Whtbttm-5168]

Hey gang. New member here, looking for some friends to chat with and maybe some advice. 

I'm a bi-sexual and closeted guy living in SF. But the main reason I'm not out is that I'm in a monogamous relationship with a woman. She's a very progressive gal and I basically know she would be 'ok' with my bisexuality but I'm just worried she wouldn't be sexually attracted to me anymore, especially after knowing my submissive nature with men. 

Any advice would help but I'm really looking for friends to chat.

[Jo****]

The best thing to do is be honest with her and talk things through as there might be some way you can work it out.  If she tells you she's no longer attracted to you, then it's better that you end the relationship than remain in an unhappy one.

[Freedom231]

I'm curious I just want to experiment and see how I like it

[Biappeal]

Hi. I can appreciate your situation. A number of years ago I told my wife I was bi. Over the past year I debated whether to tell her I was essentially gay. The difference may seem subtle given our relationship but I was not sure how she would react. Finally, I did tell her.  Her response was "well, of course, I knew for a long time that you were gay"!!

[Assup99]

Hello 

[Jayk80]

On 11/27/2018 at 10:47 AM, whtbttm said:

Hey gang. New member here, looking for some friends to chat with and maybe some advice. 

I'm a bi-sexual and closeted guy living in SF. But the main reason I'm not out is that I'm in a monogamous relationship with a woman. She's a very progressive gal and I basically know she would be 'ok' with my bisexuality but I'm just worried she wouldn't be sexually attracted to me anymore, especially after knowing my submissive nature with men. 

Any advice would help but I'm really looking for friends to chat.

 

[tr****]

Hello