Needs Help... - Love and Romance

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My girlfriend just told me that she has been smoking weed behind my back. I am ready for a family and she tells me she will try and stop. Can I trust her? Will she stop? I am an ex addict and I can't have that around me. Please someone help.

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hmm...I don't think I am a good person to comment on this one, but I know plenty of pot smokers for have families and they function as "normal" as any other family....I smoke pot but thats for medical reasons, I smoked it off and on for a while, quit when I found out I was pregnant for my son, than two and a half years ago (my son is 3 now) I started to puke up everything I ate, and in serious ***, I am currently waiting for my medical marijuanna papers to come through. I don't see anything wrong with smoking pot for medical reasons or recreationally, umm...hard *** though thats a different story...I don't really consider pot a hard drug so yeah....that probably didn't help you out at all &gt_&lt sorry! *steals your shirt and your bra* yep thats what I thought one fine bod! *smiles mischeviously and disappears*

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See.... this is a old topic.. My girlfriend and I broke up.. I am back to being single. *Big smile* But there was some stuff I didn't go into... She was trying to become a cop... and also she smoked weed with one of my friends and didn't tell me about it till 2 or 3 days later. I don't think it is wrong for people to use weed if they have to for medical reasons. *laughs and runs after hollie for her bra and shirt.. Stops dead in her tracks.* Why am I running without a shirt and bra on? Please come back.. *laughs*

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*smiles* naw you look fine running without a shirt and bra on... and yeah if I didn't smoke pot I would be puking a lot more and lose a lot more weight faster....if she was trying to become a cop than she wouldn't've made it in cause they test you for that and what not...

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Today is a new day Hollie... *Jumps out fully clothed and runs to the other side of the room.* I will stay dressed today. That is my goal. *laughs* Yeah I can understand why you smoke. Yeah if she doesn't stop smoking she wont become a cop. I wish her the best though.

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*rubs her eyes* ugh...I just want to sleep....*pulls her hat down over her eyes and her hood up over her neck* fucksakes I am freezing* you should really give me back your shirt I'm cold and need some warming up!

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Awwww.. *wanders towards Hollie and gives her the shirt off her back.* What can I say... I'm easy. *laughs gently* *wraps arms around Hollie* I will help warm you up! Least I will try Darlin. *rests chin against hollie's shoulder and nuzzles neck* Why are you so cold?

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cause I can't seem to warm up anymore, I turn the heat up hide in my heater blanket, ugh you'd think being Canadian I'd be used to being cold, but this is cold sweaat from *** and med combinations ( think)*wraps another blanket around us a snuggles into Brienne*

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Yeah I know that feeling. I used to be in lots of ***, but I started doing yoga and going to get body massages. *nuzzles against Hollie, pulls the blanket tighter around us.* Yeah, you would think being from MN and living in the frozen tundra I would be used to it, but alas.. I am not.

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*runs her icy fingers along Brienne's side* mmm...I hate snow with a passion, if I could afford to live and BC and find good docs there we'd move, but I have docs here that know that I am not looking to take *** meds and I'd be much happier with them, and I hate doc shopping though a new specialist is def. in need...ugh!! *nuzzles Brienne with her cold nose* my nose feet and hands are almost always cold even in the summer...if I could work out and everything would be better I would, but I just had a massive play session with Raven and I know for a fact that I am going to be hurting bad, but its worth it in the end...

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*shivers from the icy fingers and the cold nose against her bare skin, snuggles in against Hollie and under the many blankets they have wrapped around them.* Yeah I know. It is always worth hurting in the end when you have a fun play session with a baby. I am always really warm. I usually run a high temp anyway. I usually have a temp around 99.5. Which for me is normal. So my hands are always really warm, even outside in the middle of a snow storm they would be nice and warm.

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mmm...yeah he is my baby...opps if he heard that he'd have a fit, he's my little man, I'm the only one allowd to call him that everyone else has to call him a big boy....its the first time I played with him in 21/2ish weeks, being sick really sucks, and I am waiting to go get my tubs tied so no more babies for me, Raven is really mad and tells me he wants a real brother or *** (he calls my friend Amber's family his family) *rubs Brienne's back* I wish I could have more kids, but its just not a good idea, and I know Pat wants more but I just can't do it thats why I am the one getting fixed, when I die he can still have kids with whoever he finds when I'm gone, unless we both fall in love with someone who wants to have Pat's babies *laughs tiredly* but thats not what I am lookin for *traces designs on Brienne's back*

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I can't wait till I can have babies. It just never seems like the right time for me to have them. If I am in a relationship my partner doesn't want them, or if I am single I think.. do I really think I am able to care for a baby by myself. Not to mention it is sooooo expensive to have a baby with doctors. I even have a guy picked out from the book. He seems to be the perfect type of dad I would want for my children. *purrs gently when she feels the fingertips move along her back* I can't imagine dealing with that type of sickness.. You are a strong one Hollie. So is Pat ok with you being with women? do you have an open relationship? *leans gently against hollie and traces fingers along one of hollie's arms.*

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*shivers* yeah hes fine with it, it is in a sense an open relationship, because sex with him is hard on my body I've told him he can go find someone if he wants and he just says no, he knows I've been looking for a gf in the summer I was with Katherine from on here, but that didn't work out...so yeah...*walks her fingers along Brienne's spine* when I first met him I was seeing two other people at them time, I'd just come out of a really rough relationship lost a baby and was self-destructing pretty bad....but yeah I am probably boring you

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Not boring.. Never boring. I like talking about all this stuff. Least he is ok with you looking for a girlfriend. *Goosebumps form on skin* I am a sucker for this kinda stuff.. God I am easy. *smirks* I only slept with 1 man and the first time I got pregnant, but I also lost the baby. I soon came out after that time and have never been with a man since. I think the idea of a guy freaks me out a little. Extra things that cannot be removed. *laughs softly*

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ture..*closes her eyes*

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Just rest Hollie darlin'. All you need to do is rest.. *hugs gently*

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ugh my heater blanket is fucked and I was up pretty much all night, just laying there wishing I was somewhere far away, where there's no ***, because my heater blanket is broken I won't have anything to help ease the *** but my meds...ugh!!

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You poor thing. I am sorry Hollie. Least pat will have one to you by 5, but I know the next few hours will be pretty bad for you. *kisses cheek*

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yeah its going to suck balls *covers herslef up with a big comforter and two big fuzzy blankets* its all good in the end, its Raven's Tiger's bday today (its a stuffed Tiger that is his best frined) so we are taking themto the monster truck tonight (motorcross, demolition derby and monster trucks) Tiger is turning 5 today (even though Raven has had for under a year) Pat's even given Tiger a voice and attitude, *laughs tiredly* I know we are a strange family...

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I think that is cute!!!! I do that with my brothers kids.. We have birthdays for all their "friends" I hope you guys enjoy tonight.. I have never been to a monster truck thing before.. my brother promise to take me, but never did.

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ah this will be my second time going
its not that great here because the arena is pretty small, but i don't think Raven will mind, he had to put on his monster jam shirt (its just an orange shirt with a monster truck on it but he calls it his monster jam shirt!

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as long as the kids like it then it's all good. That is really cute that he has a shirt for it. So cute.