Uniforms

True gay mainstream culture

From cops with terrifying truncheons to doctors dispensing anal probes, generations of gay guys have adored men in uniform. Indeed, the Gay uniform fetish is one of the most popular kinks. This fetish even made it into mainstream culture thanks to 1970s disco group The Village People. But be warned. Make fun of those into uniforms at your peril. These guys take their sexual proclivities very seriously. And you’ll need to more than measure up to join them.

Uniforms are everywhere. And we’ve been surrounded by them since childhood. We’re taught to respect them. Even to fear them. But crucially, uniforms are associated with the qualities we find uber attractive in guys. Firstly, a Gay uniform fetish celebrates stereotypical ideas of masculinity. Strength and power. Who hasn’t fantasised about the plumber who pops round to twiddle your stopcock? Secondly, a Gay uniform fetish summons up ideas of authority. Firemen and greasy poles. Prison officers and handcuffs. And of course mighty military men. And thirdly, this fetish is often about ordinary, everyday work. Tough, so-called ‘real men’s work’. Industry. Buff builders. Or lustful lumberjacks with their colossal choppers. And what’s not to love about that?

The key link between a Gay uniform fetish and BDSM is to do with power. And rank. And pulling rank, so to speak. Moreover, it’s about men doing things that society says they shouldn’t while wearing a uniform. The kind of things one wouldn’t expect them to do while dressed in such attire. This makes uniform the perfect kit for the big bad Dom. Or his insatiable sub. And just the appearance of a uniform can make a guy with a Gay uniform fetish weak, wet and wondrously willing. And that’s before the role play scenarios commence. Scenarios that can get as heavy and dark as you choose. The black SS officer’s uniform may be far from politically correct. But it’s a staple in certain underground gay BDSM groups. The rest, as they say, is best left to the imagination.

You don’t play at a Gay uniform fetish. You treat it with the utmost seriousness. And this means investing in it. So, don’t traipse down to your local costume shop and buy a plastic pair of handcuffs. Or fake army fatigues. Your focus needs to be on authenticity. And this means buying the real thing. Detail is everything. So, study the uniforms that turn you on. Get every detail correct. Other guys into uniforms will be happy to help as long as they see you’re serious. Start by connecting with them on Gays.com.